Comments on: #MondayMusings: Creating moments of peace https://reemadsouza.com/2019/05/mondaymusings-creating-moments-of-peace/ A world full of words Wed, 29 May 2019 13:07:06 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.8 By: Reema D'souza https://reemadsouza.com/2019/05/mondaymusings-creating-moments-of-peace/#comment-10718 Wed, 29 May 2019 13:07:06 +0000 https://reemadsouza.com/?p=2919#comment-10718 In reply to Rachna Parmar.

Thank you Rachna 🙂

]]> By: Reema D'souza https://reemadsouza.com/2019/05/mondaymusings-creating-moments-of-peace/#comment-10717 Wed, 29 May 2019 13:06:36 +0000 https://reemadsouza.com/?p=2919#comment-10717 In reply to Parul Thakur.

Thank you for sharing your experience. I know I shouldn’t be hard on myself and take things easy.

]]> By: Reema D'souza https://reemadsouza.com/2019/05/mondaymusings-creating-moments-of-peace/#comment-10716 Wed, 29 May 2019 13:05:03 +0000 https://reemadsouza.com/?p=2919#comment-10716 In reply to Roshan Radhakrishnan.

Yes, I need to focus on finding time for myself. Thanks Doc.

]]> By: Rachna Parmar https://reemadsouza.com/2019/05/mondaymusings-creating-moments-of-peace/#comment-10640 Wed, 22 May 2019 08:40:44 +0000 https://reemadsouza.com/?p=2919#comment-10640 Oh yes I have. And I have to say that I struggled. What I did was seek help. I asked my husband to pitch in sometimes friends as well. Today, I ask my sons to help out if chores seem overwhelming. It happens. We do so much and sometimes time is just short. I hope that this work schedule eases out for you and you have more breathing room, Reema.

]]> By: Parul Thakur https://reemadsouza.com/2019/05/mondaymusings-creating-moments-of-peace/#comment-10619 Mon, 20 May 2019 14:27:29 +0000 https://reemadsouza.com/?p=2919#comment-10619 I have felt this before and it was when I was newly married. Forgive me in advance cos this may sound like an unsolicited advice.

As a newly wedded woman, I wanted to be the perfect homemaker. I cooked and cleaned and took it upon me to manage things. Until I reached a day when I found out that VT did not even know how to use the purifier. That was the turning point. I knew I was making him dependent on me and I wasn’t being an equal partner in our marriage. I stopped, reflected and brought things in order. Things are now messy but my heart is full, I have time to do what I like and when I am free. I have two helps and I buy things online Saving the time to go to store. Many things changed and like I said, I don’t have a perfect house but I have a good home.

So take a stock, organize things a bit and all will fall into place!

]]> By: Roshan Radhakrishnan https://reemadsouza.com/2019/05/mondaymusings-creating-moments-of-peace/#comment-10617 Mon, 20 May 2019 11:01:16 +0000 https://reemadsouza.com/?p=2919#comment-10617 This has been a constant in my life in recent years… unable to carve out time the way I used to, facing too many unknown variables, stresses and things that invariably end up affecting time allotted for just de-stressing.

I wish I had a quick fix…. for now, I would say focus on carving that time out that you need to just be you and not what everyone demands of you.

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